January 2009
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Stop saying that you are “cranky.” They can see that. Clearly. Also, you are not 8 years old; you don’t get to call it that anymore.
Jan 30th
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I think I dumped him the moment I met him.
Jan 30th
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You will regret looking at their Facebook pages. Twice the sleep, last night, made me tired. Some fonts are not flattering.
Jan 28th
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Can I be that quiet? Do they really need a recipe? Why is he always talking about sin? Slippers.
Jan 27th
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That kind of spirituality doesn’t travel to the suburbs. Save the date.
Jan 23rd
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And then, when you fall down a few steps, like you do every time you go up or down the staircase in every Apple Store, just leave. Do not say something funny, or something else that is snotty. Now it is clear to The Geniuses that you drop your phone on a daily basis. They will not fix that either.
Jan 23rd
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At the Apple Store they hate it if you say, “Sorry, I guess I’m just not a great Genius, like you,” after they scoff at the fact that it made sense to you to remove some keys to do some cleaning.  Only three were broken from overuse. The period, comma, and question mark.
Jan 23rd
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Today’s mail brought a postcard, for you, that started, “Dear friend, I find it easy to get by for so long by doing better to get better ideas from TV and science. That is an idea for today too.” It went on, of course, and got more personal, and more specific, so I shouldn’t print it here. It wasn’t addressed to me,  but with an opener like that, how could I stop?...
Jan 22nd
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I have about a million blogs, so I know that you’re not just good at guessing; I am an easy read.
Jan 22nd
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It is not hard to pretend that I don’t see other people.
Jan 20th
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You said, “I could love you, in theory.” That didn’t make me sad.
Jan 20th
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Note to myself: Do not cry so much when you see Barack Obama nodding his head and singing along to “American Pie.”  This is not the end of the summer at sleep-away camp;  it is the beginning of something great.
Jan 18th
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Mirroring.
Jan 16th
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That isn’t a terrorist. That is a man who is standing and staring for far too long at the table of tomatoes. I wanted to call out, “It’s winter, sir. The tomatoes aren’t even great. Can you move, please, sir, so I can decide if I want to purchase any of them or if I’m really scared you sprayed them with posion from your odd looking magnifying glass.” That...
Jan 14th
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Stop telling people that you hate hugging. They will find out soon enough.
Jan 13th
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You took my morning medicine?
Jan 12th
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The door was unlocked all day. She had to choose? Pride or prejudice? I like some parts of that schedule.
Jan 10th
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My dream job, at one point, was to be a secretary at Saturday Night Live. Not on the show. In the office.
Jan 9th
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I wanted to tell him: “Stop falling in love with strangers.”
Jan 7th
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Who doesn’t have a pen?
Jan 7th
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I assumed, at first, that you were functional. You assumed, at first, that I was functional?
Jan 6th
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“He intends to promote the album with singles, a photo shoot, and a handful of interviews, if only to prove that record promotion doesn’t really work, at least not for him.” Right, Will Oldham, and how does this nice long profile by Kelefa Sanneh in the New Yorker fit in to that foolproof plan?
Jan 6th
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The New-York Ghost is back, but how did I ever make it through work weeks, any weeks, commutes, cab rides, etc. without it?! You really should sign up now, print it out, read it too.
Jan 5th
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Everything I said while shopping for a mattress probably would have been more helpful/appropriate if I’d said it in therapy.
Jan 4th
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When my family jokes about surprising me by signing me up for a reality-television makeover show, they aren’t joking.  The threat of that knock on the door from Tim Gunn or What Not to Wear or cameras and hosts from any number of reality-tv makeover shows is one of the things I fear most.
Jan 2nd